Thursday, January 4, 2024

Marital advice from a single ninang

Advice for Julito and Cyrenn

1.  PRIORITIZE each other.  Two have become one.  There are three people in this relationship.  The first person is God.  Pray for your spouse always. When your spouse makes a mistake, forgive and forgive quickly so that you can move forward.

2.  TRUST each other.  Believe in your promises.  Be mutually faithful.  Never make fun of your spouse's decisions because YOU are one of them.

3.  COMMUNICATE.  Learn to say thank you, i'm sorry and I love you. Your wife needs to be told that she is loved, that she is beautiful and that she is valuable.  Learn each other's love languages.

4.  TIME is the best gift you can give your spouse.  Once spent, time cannot be recovered or replaced.  Invest in TIME for each other.  

5.  Make SACRED the SPACE between you. This sacred space is where your relationship will grow and prosper.  This is where your children will learn to grow in love. May you have as many children as you can afford.

Anything and EVERYTHING can change in a blink of the eye.  Therefore, live in the moment.  If there is something you want to say, say it now.  If there is something you want to do, do it now.  Tomorrow may be too late.


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